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A Review of The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath: A Raw Exploration of Depression, Societal Expectations, and Identity

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The most striking aspect of The Bell Jar is its raw exploration of mental illness and societal expectations and female identity. For Esther Greenwood, her downward spiral seems to begin with her failure to gain a place in an exclusive writing program. Having tied her identity to her academic and literary success, she is left adrift when that opportunity disappears. She loses her ability to write, struggles to read anything complex, and begins to doubt her future. This leads her into a deep depression and multiple suicide attempts, ultimately landing her in a sanatorium, where she undergoes electroshock therapy. Sylvia Plath’s depiction of Esther’s suicidal thoughts and attempts is chillingly realistic and detailed, exposing the logistical considerations and even the body’s resistance to death. For example: • Esther contemplates cutting her wrists in the bath but fears someone will interrupt her before she finishes. • She tries drowning herself at the beach, but her body instinc...

Unveiling silence: my thoughts on the book Erotic stories for Punjabi widows by Balli Kaur Jaswal

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  For my birthday, I gifted myself Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows by Balli Kaur Jaswal. The book follows Nikki, a young British Punjabi Sikh woman raised in London. She lives alone above the pub where she works as a bartender but takes on a side job in Southall, a traditional Punjabi community. Her role is supposed to be teaching widows how to write, but due to a misunderstanding, the class transforms into storytelling sessions where these elderly women begin sharing erotic tales. At first, Nikki is taken aback by the explicit nature of the stories, but soon enough, she realizes that this storytelling is an act of empowerment. These women—mostly widows—are often invisible in their community, dismissed by others, and confined by strict expectations. Through these stories, they find their voice and a space to express themselves. What I loved most was delving into the private lives of these women—their pasts, their struggles, and how they navigate life in a community bound by hono...

Reflections on the book Another Bouquet by Andrea Newman

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  After finishing Another Bouquet , the sequel to A Bouquet of Barbed Wire , written by Andrea Newman, I couldn’t shake the feeling that I was too late to the party. I wish I had read the first book to understand better the dynamics between Gavin, Manson, and Prue. Their relationships, especially how Gavin and Manson connect to Prue and to each other, would make much more sense with that backstory. Even so, Newman provides enough details to follow the plot and the drama. That said, I found myself wanting more insight into Cassie’s choices, especially her affair with Gavin. The book doesn’t go deeply into her relationship with her daughter Prue. It only hints at Cassie’s jealousy over the power Prue has over both Manson and Gavin. I was left wondering how this jealousy influenced Cassie’s decision to get involved with Gavin. The book also introduces Vicky, Gavin’s new girlfriend, who is desperate to replace Prue in Gavin’s life. She clings to him no matter how he treats her, even ac...

Exploring Fantasy, Reality, and the Power of Reading in The Book Bookworm by Robin Yeatman

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  Reading Bookworm by Robin Yeatman felt like stepping into a story that spoke to my heart, not because I live a life like the protagonist's, but because her passion for books mirrors my own. The book is about a woman who finds her escape in reading, only to realize that fantasies can never truly replace reality. The protagonist of Bookworm is a woman whose love for books shapes her identity. She often visits a cafe, where she immerses herself in stories, shutting out the world around her. However, at home, her marriage is far from idyllic. Her husband is overly critical, constantly nitpicking everything she does—from how she breathes while sleeping to how she handles being sick or even the clothes she chooses to wear. His control extends to her reading habits. He complains that her constant reading isolates her from the world, even going so far as to ban her from reading for two weeks, forcing her to sit and watch movies with him instead. This act of control enraged me as a read...